I’ve been thinking a lot recently about prayer, and about the power of a praying wife.
Prayer is about faith, and faith is something God has been inking on my heart lately. It’s like when God is showing you just how incredible something mundane is- something cliche that you’ve always known about (like faith) and He just makes it new and shows it to you in a whole new light. I love when He does that!
I get my encouragement from hearing the stories of other women and sharing experiences, so I wanted to share another recent experience of mine with the power of prayer.
My husband works for a very large company where his job performance is monitored and judged by “the numbers system”. The company expects only the best from its employees, and they don’t make it easy for their technicians to meet their numbers. Without meeting these numbers, you will be fine and your job is safe, but you won’t be able to move up in the company or make any transfers or get any perks of the job that they offer to the techs who do well.
Brian has had sort of a cloud over him at work for the last two years. He’s been cursed with the most complicated and difficult jobs every single day, and they affect his numbers in ways out of his control. He’s been unable to meet his numbers or his manager’s goals for him and it had him feeling very defeated and worthless at his job. As any wife knows, if a husband feels useless and defeated, he is not a happy man by any means, and his whole life is affected by these feelings.
I’m embarrassed to say that it took me two years to get my head out of the ground and realize I could do something (not just a small something, but something powerful) to help my husband. A little over a month ago, God laid it heavy on my heart to start praying over Brian and his job. I decided to make a list of the issues Brian was having at work, including the cloud that seemed to be hovering and keeping him from meeting his numbers no matter how hard he worked, and pray over them specifically.
I have four kids, and Emmett is only a few months old, so I knew I wouldn’t find spare time lying around… I had to determine to make time to pray. I chose the time between 2:30 and 3:30, when the older kids nap and Emmett needs to be put to sleep. I started wrapping the baby in my arms and pacing the living room while going down the list of Brian’s work-related issues, covering each one and Brian himself in Spirit-filled prayer and Scripture.
Among other things, some of my prayers were…
1. That Brian would not meet, but exceed the expectations put on him at work. That his numbers would go beyond the bare minimum.
2. That the work of his hands would be blessed (like Joseph’s in Egypt), and that he would find favor from those above him in the workplace.
3. That he would feel useful and valued at work, and hear praise from his manager.
Things don’t always happen this way, but in this instance, results came immediately. Brian told me about what a good afternoon he had at work when he got home the first night I prayed. After a week of daily time spent in prayer, his numbers were higher. Finally the end of February came around, and his numbers were so high, they exceeded the expectations of his managers. He got noticed by upper-level managers because of the positive reports coming in about him. After the last day of the month, his direct manager called him to praise him for how well he did and what an amazing, drastic change he’d made in his numbers.
He went from the lowest performance bracket to the highest in less than 30 days.
My husband is a very hard worker, dedicated, and loves his job, but the demands there were high, and I believe the enemy was using his work to bring him down and make him feel defeated. It was leaking into every area of his life. I listened to the leading of the Spirit and submitted myself to prayer for my husband. And through my submission, God was able to break chains and do an awesome thing. My husband is like a new man.
We wives have so much power.
I thank God for that because I tend to be more spiritually aware of things, and can cover my husband in prayer when he doesn’t even realize he needs it. Let’s stomp on any footholds the enemy may have in any area of our husband’s lives and use our power for good. Let’s start praying over them and being their helpers as they go out and conquer the world for their families.
Their calling is to look ahead, work, and be warriors at the front of the battlefield, protecting and providing for their families. Our calling is to be the heart- dedicated to standing behind them with prayer spilling from our lips. And what a beautiful calling it is.
And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.