After a decent amount of trial and error, I think I’ve finally come up with a comprehensive list of ways to bring peace into your home, and set up a peaceful home. I have worked hard to create a home that feels peaceful. In the way that I decorate. The way it’s laid out. The way I act as a mom.
Intentionally creating a peaceful home is a great way to ensure there is a solid foundation to fall back on when stressful moments make their way into your day to day life.
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1. choose intentional DECOR
Use décor that makes you feel the most at home, relaxed, and happy to be there.
I have created a home that is perfect for me. It makes me happy and relaxed. It feels lived-in and functional, but still beautiful and stylish. It reflects my personality. I don’t really purchase things to decorate my home with, unless they are really amazing and “my favorite” and I love it that way. Everything in my home just makes me really happy. That is so important.
Take a step back and ask yourself, “How do you feel when you walk into your home?” Take note of it. What could you maybe change? What is it that you don’t like? Do you not like the way it’s decorated? Do you feel like you don’t even know how to decorate? Educate yourself. Figure out a way to make it happen. You should like the way you feel when you walk in the house. I think decor is a big part of that because it’s so visual.
2. handle your ENTRYWAY
Some homes have an “official entryway,” whether it’s a mudroom or whatever. My home does not have one of those, but I’ve created an entryway. Whatever you are standing in when you first walk through your front door, set that up. It’s the first thing you see when you walk in the door. Everything should have a place. It should be functional and work well for you, but also be pretty, well-lit, minimalistic, clean and clear of clutter so that you walk in and the first thing you see is good.
Figure out a way. Do you come in through the garage? Do you come in through the back door? Do you come in through the front door? What do you and your family use as your main door? Where were you coming in from running errands and setting your keys down?
Make that section of your home really functional, pretty and clear of clutter for yourself, so the first thing you see when you walk in is clear. That’s really going to help you set up a peaceful existence in your home.
3. give your kids the gift of a “lived-in” home
I think there’s a balance between a home that feels way too kid friendly and a home that looks like a kid doesn’t even live there . My style is very important to me. It’s important to me that I love my home when I walk in. But I don’t want my house to feel so perfect and so beautiful that the kids are afraid to touch anything.
I think there’s a way to mix functionality with style. You can have a beautiful home that you love, that you’re proud to show off, and that you’re proud to host things in but is also a comfy place where your family can relax and unwind at the end of the day.
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4. find simple solutions to daily problems
Another way that you can bring peace into your home is find a solution to the things that are regularly stressing you out in your home.
When we moved into our two story home, I noticed that there was continually a pile of things that belonged upstairs at the bottom of the stairs every day and it was really ugly. So I found a regular dark wicker basket that goes with my décor. I put it in the empty space on the wall by my stairs and every night we take it up. It’s part of our nightly cleanup routine. We put things away, put the empty basket back downstairs for the next day.
It took away the stress, it took away the mess. No matter how minimalistic you are, if there are people living in your house, you’re going to have stuff around.
Sometimes you don’t think outside of your box and you don’t realize there’s such a simple solution that would help you so much.
5. get yourself some FLOWERS
I personally love to always have fresh flowers in my house. I budget for flowers every week and stop at the store every Sunday to pick up a new bunch. I have a couple of vases I love and I swap them out on my kitchen sink. I do not like to do the dishes and I don’t particularly love cooking either, so one way that I helped myself is by making myself love my kitchen.
I take extra care. I put extra thought and budget into making my kitchen a place that I love.
In some way, shape or form, whether faux or real, flowers can really brighten up your home. And they do make for a more peaceful environment. It’s a gift that only they can give.
6. create a peaceful atmosphere with scents
A great way you can create a peaceful atmosphere is to diffuse essential oils, use incense, or light candles. I have a diffuser I absolutely love. Pretty much all day, every day, I set it to “on”, and it goes until it runs out of water. I put distilled water in it, add some essential oil drops in there and I just diffuse all day.
It’s in the main area of the house. You can smell it anywhere you are downstairs; sometimes even upstairs too. Seeing the steam and smelling the oils, really does create a more peaceful atmosphere.
Lighting candles is always a very easy way to create a calm atmosphere in your home. The flicker and the scent warm you up like nothing else can!
Whatever way you choose to do it, adding a comforting scent to your home will bring peace to your household.
7. INTENTIONALLY PLAN PEACEFULNESS
Intentionally planning for peacefulness around times that are usually stressful is huge. If you want to set your home up to be peaceful, you have to think ahead. What are usually the most stressful times of your day? Intentionally look ahead and plan for peacefulness around those times.
Play worship music. Play instrumental music. Play acoustic music. Light candles during those times. Maybe take a minute and go in a closet or the bathroom or somewhere and just sit for a second and focus on your breathing. Consciously do a quick standing meditation for 5-10 minutes before those times. Get yourself in a place of peace. We reflect what we’re feeling on our kids and our families, and they tend to follow how we’re feeling. I think there is something to be said about intentionally planning for peacefulness around the times that tend to be tense and stressful.
8. create PHONE BOUNDARIES
Phone boundaries make for a peaceful home by fostering family time. I actually did a whole podcast episode a while back on phone settings for a present life. I would encourage you to look at how much you’re using your phone. It’s going to create stress if your kids feel like you’re always looking down at your phone.
You can have your phone settings set up so your phone will ring for phone calls but not make other sounds. You can a have set time and place where you check your text messages and Instagram.
Putting your phone in its place will create an atmosphere of peace because you’re focused on your family. You’re available to answer questions and talk to them about their days and be there without being distracted.
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When a stressful or tense situation hits, this checklist is GOLD! It is the perfect go-to because it’s practical, straight forward, and has even more great peacemaking ideas! It’s incredible to have something like this on hand just in case a stressful day decides to creep up on you!
Friends, I really don’t want you to forget your checklist! It’s all the points that I covered written out for you to print out and put on your fridge. “13 Ways To Bring Peace Into Your Home.” What an amazing thing to have sitting on your fridge so you can look at it and be reminded all the time.
It’s divided into two sections: ways to set up a peaceful home and “in the middle of stress” peacemaker ideas. If you feel like your house is getting really tense and your family really needs some peace, look at your fridge, look at these ideas and do one of them or all of them.
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