In a candid chat with Julie Solomon, we dove into something raw, real, and incredibly personal—our money wounds. This isn’t your typical money management talk. It’s about digging deep into those scars left by old beliefs and traumas surrounding money, and how they shape us as mothers, entrepreneurs, and women striving for more.

“I Remember Believing I Wasn’t Enough to Have Enough”

Julie’s journey started in a place many of us know all too well—a childhood where money was scarce and fraught with tension. Growing up in a working-class family, she internalized early on that money was the root of struggle. This belief trailed her into adulthood, fueling a relentless pursuit to prove she was worthy of abundance, only to find herself drowning in debt and denial.

But here’s the kicker—Julie’s story might as well be our own. So many of us carry these hidden scars, believing our worth is tied to our wealth.

The Moment Everything Changed

For Julie, the reckoning came in the form of a shocking revelation to her husband about her secret debt. It wasn’t just about the numbers on a bill. It was a wake-up call to how disconnected she had become from her true self and values.

Healing Begins with Peeling Back Layers

Addressing our money wounds isn’t about a quick fix. It’s a journey back to our deepest selves, confronting and releasing those limiting beliefs we’ve been hauling around since childhood.

1. “Why Am I Not Seeing the Value in My Work?” The first step is recognizing those damaging beliefs. Julie had to confront why she devalued her own earnings compared to her husband’s, challenging the deep-seated notion that a woman’s contribution to the family coffers was somehow less significant.
2. Changing the Narrative involves crafting new, empowering beliefs. Julie embraced her work not as an opposition to her role as a mother and wife but as an extension of her identity and capabilities.
3. Claiming Your Space: It’s about standing firm in your worth and the life you desire. “This is my life,” Julie realized, refusing to let old scripts dictate her worthiness of wealth and fulfillment.

It’s More Than Money—It’s About Worthiness

Our conversation ventured beyond finances to touch the core of worthiness, motherhood, and authenticity. It served as a potent reminder that our financial struggles are intertwined with our broader quest for purpose and self-acceptance.

• Worthiness Isn’t Priced: We explored how self-worth influences our financial behaviors. Julie’s journey taught her that worthiness isn’t something to be earned or proven through wealth but is an inherent truth.
• Motherhood and Money: Both of us shared how motherhood reshaped our understanding of success and value. It’s not about choosing between being a dedicated mother and pursuing our passions but about embracing both, without guilt or shame.
• Authentic Living: Ultimately, our financial health reflects our commitment to living authentically. Healing our money wounds is part of a larger journey toward self-acceptance, embracing our desires, and honoring our worth.

To All the Moms Out There

If you find yourself wrestling with your own money stories, remember, you are not alone. Your worth transcends your bank balance or societal roles. It’s about honoring your value, chasing your dreams, and believing in your right to both personal and financial fulfillment.

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